Actually, I once heard a Bible teacher say Agape was a word coined by Paul because there was no word in the Greek at that time which conveyed the kind of love that God alone is capable of having all the time.

The word "charity" has come to mean something other than what it meant in the old King James English. It used to be the word for the kind of love that Jesus has for us, full of grace and compassion and long suffering. Now it means giving to the Salvation Army your cast offs that you no longer need, or doing something out of pity, or out of wanting others to commend you for your "charitable works". I've seen this passage sometimes used to beat fellow brothers and sisters over the head with to "encourage" them (it has happened to me personally and I've seen it used on others too) to be more "loving" ( in other words: "don't say anything that will cause me to face anything that will challenge my selfishness and otherwise fleshy sensibilities please"). This is a passage that is personal. It is a passage that the Lord speaks to His own in times of quiet reflection. It isn't something to harass others with to get them in lock-step with yourself, forcing them to be your personal "yes-men" out of their "love" for you. It is to remind us of God's love, and how we often do not measure up to that incredible love that He has for us, and that His Spirit grows in us by His doing.
THE LOVE CHAPTER
1Corinthians 12:30-13:13 Have all the
gifts of healing? do all
speak with tongues? do all
interpret?
But covet earnestly the best gifts: and yet shew I unto you a more excellent way.
Though I speak with the
tongues of men and of angels, and have not
charity,
I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
And though I have the gift of
prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all
faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not
charity,
I am nothing.
And though I bestow all my goods to
feed the poor, and though I
give my body to be burned, and have not
charity,
it profiteth me nothing.
Charity suffereth long, and is kind;
Charity envieth not;
charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
Doth not
behave itself unseemly,
seeketh not
her own,
is not
easily provoked,
thinketh no
evil;
Rejoiceth not
in iniquity,
but
rejoiceth in the truth;
Beareth all things,
believeth all things,
hopeth all things,
endureth all things.
Charity never faileth:
but whether there be
prophecies,
they shall fail;
whether there be
tongues,
they shall cease;
whether there be
knowledge,
it shall vanish away.
For
we know
in part,
and
we prophesy
in part.
But when that which is perfect is come,
then that which is in part shall be done away.
When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
And now abideth
faith,
hope,
charity, these three;
but the greatest of these is
charity.